The most asked question in the world is why. After every decision the next thing that comes up is why? When your friends and family tell you their decisions what have we all been guilty of saying next, why? One of the first questions every child asks is, why? (But why for those extra curious kids) One would think that after hundreds of years of asking the same question someone would have given up the answer by now. I have good news for everyone after 30 years of research I finally stumbled onto the answer to one of the greatest of all of mans mysteries. Here it is, brace yourself: WHY? Because you can. Simple as that, you can. We as humans tend to complicate things and by doing so we miss out on some of the best life has to offer. That damn question always pops up.
7 Keys to getting over why:
Commit the Time to it:
The number 1 time waster is looking for things that are lost. The reason they’re lost is because you didn’t know what to do with it when you had it.
• What aren’t you doing because you’re waiting on the time to be right?
• What time is right time on the clock?
• What time is better than right now?
Have the Love for it:
Love yourself by choosing the thoughts you want to think. The BIGGER the BETTER! Have the COURAGE to express yourself and be who you want to be. Be HAPPY! Stop grieving over stuff you don’t have. It’s ok to want stuff, just don’t let your hearts desires become heart disease.
Make excuses for it:
Stop using I can’t afford to as an excuse and start using I can’t afford not to as your reason. . The average person attempts a goal they set for themselves less than 1% of the time. They spend time talking themselves into something, then the excuses kick in and they spend time talking themselves out of it.
Make the choice to do it:
Life is about choice not chance! Your future will someday be your present. Your present will someday be your past. You can chart the course of your future today if you make the choice. People do not lack strength, they lack will. People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking they can do things. The first secret to success is belief in self and that is a choice that needs to be made daily.
AFFIRM: life is about choices and today I Choose to have a great attitude, I choose to give 100% commitment, I choose to be a good example and I will add positive value to somebody somewhere. AFFIRM: life is about choices and today I choose to have a great attitude, I choose to give 100% commitment, I choose to be a good example and I will add positive value to somebody somewhere.
Careful of who you let Influence it:
It’s easy to let influence shape our lives, to let associations determine our direction, to let pressures overwhelm us and to let tides take us. Ask yourself this:
• Am I allowing myself to become what we wish to become?
• Who am I around?
• What are these associations doing to me?
• What have they got me doing?
• How have they got me talking?
• How have they got me feeling?
• Most importantly is that ok?
• Evaluate the positive and negative, both will take u somewhere but only one will take you where you want to go.
Never under estimate the power of influences. The influence of those around us is so powerful many times we don’t even realize we’re being strongly affected. People can keep nudging us off course a little at a time, until finally we find ourselves asking, “How did I get here?” If you were to evaluate all the major influences in your life that shape the person you are today, the people you associate with better be at the top. Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born unless they arrive. Choose your relationships with care. Your relationships will determine the quality of your life, get around the right people.
Take the Risk to get it:
Be willing to launch with no guarantees of success. This is the mark of personal greatness!!
E.N.D=entirely new direction. Trust turns walls into bridges. What you put up with, you end up with. The amount of fear you feel by making changes in your life is proportionate to how much joy you will gain by changing. More fear, more joy! It’s all about having lots of nerve, confidence and guts. Bite off more than you can chew. The truth is U have nothing to lose. Life is naturally setup for u to overcome obstacles, most of which are only in your mind. Life is far more on your side than u believe.
You gotta communicate it:
The most influential person who will talk to you all day is YOU, be very careful of what you say to you!
The words of your mouth are a creative force. They play a big part in predestining your future. Your words are the architects of your life. The tongue is like a tool. We need to use our tools of the present to build the future we desire.
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE! Actually everything is impossible until someone has the courage to believe and take action.
If you think it’s impossible, it isn’t. If you think you know everything, you don’t. If you think you’re alone you’re not.